Find True Love With an Authentic, Healthy Partner
STOP BEING THE RESCUER AND SETTLING FOR CRUMBS
End The Cycle Disappointment In Your Relationships
You're smart. You're a good person. You know you deserve more so why does it feel like you always wind up being mistreated, taken advantage of or disappointed?
I've been there. In my professional life I was successful and well respected but my personal life was a total nightmare. In addition to the heartache and emotional turmoil, it was embarrassing to admit that someone so smart could be so stupid.
What I came to understand, after far too many years of suffering and utter confusion, is that the logical part of my mind that was in charge of getting a degree and being a competent nurse, wasn't the part of my mind in charge of love and connection. IQ simply doesn't translate to emotional intelligence which is required for happy, healthy relationships.
Enter NLP and hypnotherapy. I have to confess, you are smarter and more self aware than I was. I was still under the illusion that I wanted to learn how to help others when I stumbled upon, or rather was guided to study, NLP. In spite of my misguided rescuer complex, the Universe steered me into the path of my own salvation. On my journey of learning hypnotherapy, I made deep, life altering changes in my subconscious which radically changed my relationship with, well, relationships.
Long story short, before I (inadvertently) got help, I never had a good romantic relationship. Afterwards, I never had a bad one. Truth. My pattern shifted from abuse, chaos, trauma and guilt to mutual respect, peace, fun and yumminess.
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The Cake and Frosting Formula For True Love
When we think of romantic relationships, our mind wanders to sunsets on the beach, candlelight dinners and passionate kisses. These are all the yummy parts, you know, like the frosting. However, we rarely fantasize about what it takes to build and maintain a solid foundation for a relationship. Having a solid foundation, the cake if you will, requires clearing up our subconscious patterns, healing our triggers, learning healthy forms of communication, having difficult conversations, setting boundaries, seeing things from the other person's point of view and showing genuine empathy. If we don't develop the skills to maintain a healthy relationship, the yummy turns to yucky. A diet of nothing but frosting loses its appeal rather quickly.
But dramatic results, like the ones I experienced, begins with healing the subconscious wounds and patterns that we brought with us from childhood. These impressions and traumas are the "intelligence" our subconscious mind refers to when it comes to navigating our personal lives. Most of us didn't receive very helpful guidance or examples of healthy relationships. We were not instilled with self love and confidence or taught how to speak our truth and set healthy boundaries. No wonder we can be so smart in our professional life and so stupid in our personal life. The really tricky part, is that all of these patterns and emotional triggers are deeply unconscious. We don't know what's going on or why it's happening. All we know is that it KEEPS happening and we're tired of it. If you're exhausted and ready to get off the Merry Go Round, reach out to Serena and take that leap of faith. What have you got to lose?
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Why Subconscious Change Work?
Because it works. At the end of the day, in order to change your patterns, your emotional triggers and, ultimately, your relationships, you have to change your subconscious programming. Naturally, you will also need to make new choices, increase your awareness of self and others and practice better communication skills. But without changing the subconscious emotional responses, programs and self concept, all of the rest is an uphill battle. Healing your wounds and traumas, developing self love and reintegrating your fractured parts experientially makes the rest of the process feel absolutely easy and natural. When you're not fighting with our subconscious programs and struggling with your emotional conflicts and turmoil, you can be as smart in your personal life as you already are in your professional life. There's never been anything wrong with you, you were just given some really bad information. Work smarter, not harder. Work with Serena and see how easy it can be to heal, attract and maintain true love with an authentic, healthy partner.
